When you start dating someone new, the most important question on your mind is, “Is he ready for a relationship?” Because I know how nerve-wracking this situation can be, I thought that today’s a good day to share with you 7 Obvious Signs He Wants A Relationship, so stay tuned.
Hey everybody. Welcome back to QuotesG. We both know that commitment is a very delicate topic, and more often than not, women do not know how to approach the topic straight up, so that a man can tell them if he’s ready for a relationship or not.
While I do think that you still have to talk about it at one point, I know that there are a few clues that will show you if you are dating a relationship-ready man. So, let’s get straight to it.
7 Obvious Signs He Wants A Relationship
1. He Pursue You
Number one is very simple. Does he actually pursue you? Before I go into the topic, I actually want to say that there is nothing wrong with a woman showing her interest in a man by calling or texting him first from time to time.
But you never want to find yourself in a situation where you are the only one initiating every conversation.
A man that is truly interested in you will show you not just by his words, but by his actions that he’s serious about you.
You will feel his attention on you because he checks in with you because he carries the communication forward, and you won’t have to wonder where he is and what your status is because he’s actively pursuing you, and you feel good about it.
Number two is what you can observe very early on in the dating phase. Is he consistent or does he sporadically send a, “Hey, what’s up?”
A man who wants to get to know you will keep up the contact and will make sure that he finds out as much about you as he can by following up.
He will make sure to talk to you whenever he can via text, by phone or in person. He will text you on his lunch break or call you when he’s on his way back home from work.
There won’t be a lot of periods of time where he’s MIA, and you’re wondering where he is. Instead, you will truly feel like he’s interested because he’s consistent in his contact, and if you’re wondering what is too long to not hear from someone that you’re dating. Two days should be the max, and that with a good excuse.
3. He Progresses the Relationship
We all know what it feels like to be in a situation where time is standing still, and you feel like you’re in the twilight zone for way too long. That is not the case if you meet a guy that knows what he wants and is not afraid to go after it.
When a man is serious about a relationship, he will be more intentional with you, and he will want to increase the amount of time that he sees you.
Instead of just going on an evening date once a week, he will want to see you more frequently and for longer periods of time.
He will desire to spend more time with you and move from dating to courting very quickly.
4. He is willing to slow it down for you
I believe that boundaries are the number one best way to test a man’s intentions for you. If the guy that you’re seeing respects the boundaries that you put in place, then it means that he’s truly interested, and that he wants to see if the relationship has potential.
A man that is ready to commit doesn’t mind meeting your requirements if that means that he gets to spend time with you and to be with you.
Okay, so now I really need to know, do you find it easy to communicate your standards and boundaries or are you low-key worried that the guy you’re seeing is going to fled the scene?
I know I used to be worried, so please let me know in the comments below if you want me to make a video on how to communicate your standards and boundaries to a man while dating.
5. He Opens up to You
Ladies, men know that being in a relationship means that the woman will be all up in their business: the good, the bad, and the ugly. A man who does not want to be with you for the long run will avoid sharing vulnerable information with you.
He would give you superficial answers whenever you try to connect with him on a deeper emotional level, but a man that is ready for a relationship will be willing to be vulnerable with you and to be intimate by sharing more of himself with you.
He will invite you into his world because he wants you to know what he loves so that you can become part of his world.
6. Really Cute and Simple
Number six is really cute and simple, and that is that he makes plans for the two of you. A relationship-ready man will plan.
He will make sure that he books himself into your week, so that he gets to see you, and he will do so ahead of time because he knows if he doesn’t, chances are that you will go on a date with someone else.
He will even invite you into his existing plans with others if that means that he gets to spend more time with you. So, a man that truly wants to be with you will make you his number one option and show you his intentionality through making plans.
7. The Relationship is Just Peaceful
The last one is my personal favorite, and that is that the relationship is just peaceful. When you meet a man that is ready to commit, you will feel that the relationship is just easy and flows peacefully.
Easy and flows peacefully. There are no awkward gaps. You don’t have to question all the time if you are on the same page or not.
Instead, his words and his actions will align, and he will show you that he’s truly interested, and you will feel in your spirit that he is a safe choice.
Here, you have it again, 7 obvious signs that he’s ready for a relationship, but these signs will only go so far at one point if you want or not. You will have to talk about commitment.